Random Post #2
The Spirit of Aloha
It's been a little over a month since I moved to Oahu with 2 of my friends, we plan on staying here until right before Christmas. If you've ever been to Hawaii you're probably familiar with the aloha spirit. This is my first time here in Hawaii and before getting here I (ignorantly?) thought aloha was just meant to say hello or goodbye. Within my first few days, I learned aloha is a way of life. In its basic form, it means compassion, love, and peace. It's also the idea that sending and receiving positive energy never dies but multiplies and spreads over to others.
We live on the west side of Oahu which is hardly touristic and I had heard mixed things about the locals' feelings towards mainlanders. I'm happy to say we have been shown aloha in more ways than I could have imagined. People are exceptionally friendly in the simple ways you'd expect such as smiling and greeting you as a stranger, but then there's a different sort of kindness that I have experienced.
Hawaiians show spontaneous gestures of generosity. The best way to describe it is probably just through some examples. There was this one really hot day, my friends and I were trekking home from the beach and we had run out of water hours ago, we didn't have our phones or money. We walked up to a food truck and asked for a drink from their water hose and the owner stepped out of the truck with ice-cold bottles of water for each of us. Our neighbor, Francis, often comes over to gift us bags full of mangos and papayas from his trees and teaches us Hawaiian pidgin phrases. One day our other neighbor, Boy, randomly bought us 2 buckets of KFC chicken with all the sides for dinner! Camilo is our other neighbor that lives behind our house and he often barbecues. When he sees us hanging out in the yard he'll toss a bag of smoked meat over the fence and tell us to enjoy, he's a guy of few words but it's aloha.
Aloha is about giving more than you receive and showing kindness to others through actions, even in the smallest forms. Each gesture of kindness always strikes me because it's so unexpected and different from how we treat each other in other places I have lived in. The spirit of aloha has already left a lifelong impression on me. I love how living on this island is teaching me about mutual regard for others and the importance of daily expressions of compassion.
